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LINDSEYS B-DAY GIFTS AND RECAP ON DAVID PARKER RAY
We're raising our Bloody Marys to celebrate both Lindsay's birthday and our podcast's first anniversary in this raw, unfiltered episode that perfectly captures what makes Drink About Something unique – our ability to balance life's joys with exploration of its darkest corners.
The celebration kicks off with a recap of Lindsay's birthday dinner at her favorite Mexican restaurant, complete with a sombrero, singing waitstaff, and a tiny margarita with a candle. Jesse went all out with gifts, focusing on Lindsay's love for Bloody Marys with an impressive array of mixes, garnishes, and specialty vodkas. We also highlight meaningful purchases from survivors' businesses, including clothing from Jennifer Turpin (of the Turpin family case) and Aaron Goodwin.
But true to our format, we don't shy away from the darkness. We delve into the horrific case of David Parker Ray, known as the Toybox Killer, whose crimes were so disturbing that Jesse experienced an emotional breakdown during our recording. This raw moment underscores the weight of what we cover – a serial predator whose full victim count will never be known, leaving countless families without closure.
The episode captures a profound realization: how cases like this highlight the everyday fear many women live with, and how covering true crime has opened Jesse's eyes to this reality. We recommend "Cries in the Desert" for listeners wanting to learn more about this disturbing case.
As we toast to our 50th episode and prepare for our upcoming New England trip, this milestone recording embodies everything our podcast stands for – finding moments of connection and joy while confronting the darkest aspects of humanity. Join us for this unedited glimpse into both our celebration and our contemplation of a case that left us forever changed.
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uh hey, jesse we're here.
Speaker 1:What's up what?
Speaker 2:what are you drinking today?
Speaker 1:just a little bit more. This captain morgan long island over here. Well, I've been talking about this cup for a while. I wanted to see blackbeard was a motherfucker and then I got a cup. That's his little thing, so that's apparently bluebeard was worse.
Speaker 2:They they caught, so they called bell gunness lady. Bluebeard was worse Bluebeard, so they called Belle Gunness Lady Bluebeard. So I'm going to research Bluebeard, okay, and we'll talk about him later on.
Speaker 1:I feel like I need to be over here a little bit more there we go.
Speaker 2:I'm in y'all, by the way. Hi, everybody, hi, happy Wednesday. Yes, this is Raw, uncut, unedited Recap. Raw, this is raw, uncut, unedited recap, drunk about something, and we're going to recap my birthday, so this will come out about a week and a half after my birthday, but anyway. So we're going to recap my birthday and we're going to recap david parker ray, aka toybox. If you have listened to both parts, in part two, jesse has a full-on breakdown.
Speaker 1:I do and it's okay, he crashes out. Yeah, we're almost 50 episodes in Act like a podcaster over here. Oh there, put it right there.
Speaker 2:Act like we're a year in Dude this is like our.
Speaker 1:We're fixing to break off into our second season. You know that, but we just got into video podcasting, so that's amazing check in in 30 minutes yeah, we're saying bye to sy because sy's gonna go play while we talk about our stuff, while we play right bye sy. He was so amazing at your little party you need to cover everything, cover, everything Cover everything, tell everybody everything.
Speaker 2:First of all okay. So last night we went to dinner with family and friends at my favorite Mexican restaurant here in town called El Patro's. They have the best chips and salsa. They have the best Texas rice, which is like a Spanish rice with peppers and onions, and steak shrimp chicken the whole everything.
Speaker 1:I really think that you and I, we really get down on that. We love that. That's probably our favorite Now. I love Italian food. I love Italian food.
Speaker 2:There's our refrigerator that we usually edit out.
Speaker 1:Yeah. Yeah, when we're recording and it goes off, we're like yeah, and then we edit yeah, that's what we do, that's what we do.
Speaker 2:This is raw, uncut and unedited, so you get to hear our refrigerator.
Speaker 1:I love my lasagna right.
Speaker 2:I'm Mexican food all the way. Well, look at her, does she? Look Caucasian to you, I also love Chinese Japanese. I got me a little.
Speaker 1:Mexican America. Not really I'm very British. They lie.
Speaker 2:According to Ancestry, I am British as fuck.
Speaker 1:Look how pale and white I am compared to you. Oh, and then, along with the Texas rice, we get chili rellano, which is deep fried, british as fuck. So anyways, birthday.
Speaker 2:Look how pale and white I am compared to you. Birthday dinner. Oh, and then, along with the Texas rice, we get chili rellano, which is deep fried poblano peppers topped with cheese. It is chef's kiss, don't do.
Speaker 1:Italian things to Mexican things.
Speaker 2:It don't matter, this is close enough.
Speaker 1:It's all Greek root. Everything comes from Greek, even.
Speaker 2:Windex Soak from Greek, even Windex, even Windex. Soak your elbow in some Windex. Watch Big Fat Greek Wedding, if you don't know what that means.
Speaker 1:All of them were good.
Speaker 2:So they do this thing. If it's your birthday, which we celebrate, many of our family members' birthdays there, many. So they know us. They know we tip. Well, tip your servers. I don't know why I'm doing quotes. Tip your servers. I am a server by trade. I've been doing it for over 20 years. Tip your servers, especially if they give you good servers.
Speaker 1:Tip them anyway, because you don't know what they're going through that day, you don't know what the cooks are doing you don't know what the kitchen's doing, the management's doing.
Speaker 2:It could just be a bad day in general in the restaurant. Tip your server, it's just a thing. Yeah, it's good karma If you tip, even when maybe your service was subpar, it's probably not the server's fault and you're going to get good karma out of it. Yeah.
Speaker 1:Always tip average, but if, if, if they're amazing tip over over tip, over tip, I over tip.
Speaker 2:I am a server, I over tip and we do it.
Speaker 1:We do it.
Speaker 2:We do the damn thing, Lindsay you got a whole ass, so hold Okay. So they bring out a sombrero for you to wear while they sing happy birthday to you and a little like picture frame. And they brought me oh my God, it was so cute the tiniest little, because I was drinking strawberry margaritas. They bring me out the tiniest little strawberry margarita with a candle on top. My 20-year-old Landon he has video footage of that they sang me happy birthday, gave me a teeny tiny margarita that I just added to my big fish bowl, but it's whatever. And then everybody gave me presents. So before we left for dinner, jesse had this whole countertop full of things for me. Okay, look at me, I'm over here goofing. So we've already dove off into this and it's delicious. So he got me a I love pistachio, anything, anything. He got me a Dubai chocolate bar. This is glary.
Speaker 1:Hang on.
Speaker 2:We'll talk about that in a second. So he got me a Dubai chocolate bar that we've already eaten half of, okay. Then he got me some dill pickle vodka for our next Bloody Marys, because we went to the place where we got married, one Love Cafe, today, and had brunch. We got married there.
Speaker 1:Lindsay, we got married there.
Speaker 2:But we had brunch and Bloody Marys and some avocado toast and eggs and some steak and eggs.
Speaker 1:It was wonderful, it was good, so good, and Silas fucking performed there.
Speaker 2:Hold on, let me get that. Oh, I'm bumping in.
Speaker 1:I'm bumping in Go ahead Lansing.
Speaker 2:I'm going to talk about my presents first.
Speaker 1:It's your birthday, I'll shut up.
Speaker 2:Then he got me some vodka from our local brewery Halpatter, and this is Alpada Alpada vodka.
Speaker 1:So Halpada was the chief of our area.
Speaker 2:Native American chief History History. Lesson History time with Jesse Right. Yes.
Speaker 1:Before Lake City Florida became Lake City Florida, it was called Alligator.
Speaker 2:By the way, I'm drinking a natural lime Vista Bay.
Speaker 1:Yeah, she's got all the coolness. Yeah, okay From Aldi okay, and from aldi. So the the chief was chief halpatter and the muskogee creek or seminole, whatever they call it, whatever in those times I I feel like are they different?
Speaker 2:are they the same? Well, seminole tribe around that there's a lot of muskogee creeks in our area, by the way and the seminole tribe when we have like.
Speaker 1:Okay, there's a Muscogee Creek tribe right here in our town. You've taken me to stomp dances there, yeah the Native American ceremonies and the religious things right there, right down the road from us.
Speaker 1:So Rose Creek is where the basin of that whole tribe that was still here, we were there. Okay, you know. So, history, history, you know, uh, history history, you know, learn your learn, learn your history in your local area. Native americans, they, they lived here, you know, before they were here first. Everyone came here and done their thing, so they changed the name of the, the town of alligator to um, like yeah, we were originally alligator town.
Speaker 1:Yeah, correct, yeah where the gators came from, because the university there's a lot of came from because the University of Florida.
Speaker 2:There's a lot of Gators here, lots the.
Speaker 1:University of Florida was here first. And then they moved over some bullshit and moved to Gainesville.
Speaker 2:They moved to Gainesville where they created Gatorade, yeah, so if you're having a nice cool Gatorade today or any other day, they created that. Hey Lindsay they created it right down the road in Gainesville.
Speaker 1:In the middle of all your doings. Where did you think love bugs came from?
Speaker 2:The University of Florida.
Speaker 1:They did not Google it.
Speaker 2:Where did they come from South America? Yeah, you told me that they came from Gainesville. How?
Speaker 1:much, how many.
Speaker 2:You have misinformed me. How many people hey Google?
Speaker 1:How many people Go?
Speaker 2:ahead, go ahead, hey Google.
Speaker 1:I was told wrong.
Speaker 2:Where do love bugs come from? Google ain't working for you. It's not working. Google will be working for you, hey Google.
Speaker 1:No, Google ain't working for you.
Speaker 2:Where do love bugs come from? We like to Google. I'm a large language model trained by Google. Okay, where do love bugs come from?
Speaker 1:then we're just pausing for the cause now, at this moment. Shit love bugs migrated to the southeastern united states home central america. They are not the result of a scientific experiment, but that is a fucking thing in our area.
Speaker 2:So we have love bug seasons. Every May and September Love bugs just show up.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:They don't, they're not around any other time of the year, and you know, what's funny is, uh, you know, we had the whole COVID thing in 2020. They have literally decreased their population since then. I don't know what happened when we were growing up, was there not? I mean, even when? Okay, so when I was pregnant with Silas, Jesse was very involved in a very busy band, so we literally had all of our weekends booked from the end of September until the day our child was born. So we had to have my baby shower for my birthday in September and he wasn't due until December. How many love bugs showed up to that motherfucker while we were cooking. So we were smoking some food outside you could grab handfuls.
Speaker 2:It was a nightmare.
Speaker 1:Your baby shower was a nightmare. No, it wasn't until the evening.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I mean it wasn't after it started. The day while we were prepping that temperature gets right.
Speaker 1:Boom Thousands. I mean, you couldn't hold your mouth.
Speaker 2:I was stressing the fuck out.
Speaker 1:That's the craziest thing in our life.
Speaker 2:And we didn't eat any.
Speaker 1:Maybe it was just where we lived.
Speaker 2:But maybe where we lived was cursed. I mean, even when I was growing up. I remember my parents. My dad dabbled in a lot of things but he did auctioneering and he had an equipment auction at our farm and there were so many love bugs. They were like when we folded up the folding chairs after it was over there was nasty.
Speaker 1:Hundreds of dead love bugs that people had sat on don't you hate it when a beard hair keeps getting in your nostril hole? Oh, you don't have that. Never mind, wait a minute.
Speaker 2:I'm over here like trying to so I'm gonna continue with the birthday gifts and then we're going to recap. David Parker Ray. So he got me. So for future, bloody Marys, which we love Zing Zang, but we want to try something. We always try something different. We always go back to Zing Zang, but we want to try something different. So he got me Devil Dave's Bloody Mary mix.
Speaker 1:Boom.
Speaker 2:Okay, so he got me two bags of that.
Speaker 1:Boom, boom.
Speaker 2:And then so at the cafe where we got married, where we go to quite often for brunch, they have a Pickle Rick Bloody Mary that they make with Texas craft sour pickle flavored vodka and it's 50 proof. And he got me several little bottles of those, probably about four right.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:I was just like I want you to have that flavor too. And then he got me a Bloody Mary blaster shot. This is concentrated, okay. So you stir in one tablespoon of blaster to 12 ounces of juice, which tomato juice or the whole vial into a 46 ounce jug. So this is like a little concentrate.
Speaker 1:And that's what we'll be probably making a whole 46 ouncer.
Speaker 2:Yeah, so next week for our 50th episode bang, bang bang. And then he got I guess this is like a travel Bloody Mary stick If you want to make Bloody Mary on the go, which I think you will take with our trip I probably will, yeah, to New England, to New England 26, leaving out. Then he got me Chilada, chili, lime Devil, dave's rimming salt. Because who doesn't want some rimming salt, who doesn't want it, who doesn't want a rim job?
Speaker 1:Yeah, who doesn't?
Speaker 2:Dirty, and then there's a little sticker that goes with it. We're going to put that on our outside fridge. Pickle crack, and then pickle crack hot sauce.
Speaker 1:That's all the crackness We'd be cracking up in here.
Speaker 2:Then he got me some garnishes for Bloody Mary's as in. So our little local gas station around here is actually like a billion dollar company, right?
Speaker 1:Well, yeah, and they're like almost like a Bucky's, almost Not quite. They're trying to get to Bucky's.
Speaker 2:But it doesn't matter, they have some good shit. So they have this Cajun pickled garlic, because I love pickled garlic.
Speaker 1:Yeah, If you go in that store it's like, okay, it's not a Bucky's, but it has all the flavor. It's amazing.
Speaker 2:You need to go to a couple of them it's Bucky's, without the beef, jerky, fudge and brisket. They have the fudge and brisket. Okay, I have the fudge and uh, they have the beef jerky.
Speaker 1:It's not quite, it's half the size. The bathrooms are amazing.
Speaker 2:They have all the coolness, you gotta check it out. Okay, you gotta check it out. Then he got me some pickled green beans. Yes, I love these. I could eat this whole jar, like right here I'm numb. And then, uh, my or jesse's bestie, amanda, she got me Eliano's gift card. That is our local coffee shop.
Speaker 1:Amanda is so amazing. That's why she's my bestie. She always shows up, she's always amazing.
Speaker 2:So if you have to drink sugar-free like I do sugar-free or guilt-free, don't say freezer, once a week, go get you one.
Speaker 1:I cannot exist without it.
Speaker 2:But if you don't have to be sugar-free, cookies and cream tuxedo turtle.
Speaker 1:What'd you bring me? What?
Speaker 2:did I bring White pumpkin, white mocha? Yes, oh my God, I took one sip. Yes, it was so good, so good, it was so good. And then she got me these awesome. So I have gauged ears, but I have a second hole that are not gauged. So I'm going to be wearing these. Can you see them? On the streets of salem I'm going to be wearing these, we'll see. And that my second hole, with just some plain black gauges in my gauged holes. And then she got me a purple bracelet, cause I love purple.
Speaker 1:You will see what we wear on the streets of Salem pretty soon.
Speaker 2:And then my other bestie, uh Cindy. She got me a Disney villains from wet and wild little makeup bag Look at how cute. So you got Maleficent Cruella, Ursula, my favorite, and the queen, the evil queen, and from Bath Body Works. Now they have Disney Villains candle lines.
Speaker 1:They smell so good. She came home and fired up one of the candles we have over there we're not going to show you Right off rip. The whole house is just so Halloween right now.
Speaker 2:But no, okay, so go out and get you the Evil Queen. This is the best. Okay, so she got me Evil Queen and Maleficent. They both smell amazing, but this one, this one, save for January. This will take all the post-holiday blues away.
Speaker 1:Smell it again. Hang on, I've just went through all the shit. All the kids are gone. Let me see what I need to smell like now.
Speaker 2:Yes, and then smell Maleficent. They're both so good I'm going to save those for january.
Speaker 1:those are going, yeah, I feel like, because I have certain smells after this one yeah, I think this is like evil queen's gonna be finally climbing out of all the christmas since the pine and the shit right, like I said, I have pumpkin.
Speaker 2:We're pumpkin bound right now. We're pumpkin bound until december.
Speaker 1:And then we're all about the balsam and fur and apple one that's gonna bring me me out of Christmas and start a new year.
Speaker 2:This is going to be. This is like pre Game of Thrones rewatch oh my.
Speaker 1:God.
Speaker 2:Burn that while we're rewatching When's.
Speaker 1:House of Dragons coming out again.
Speaker 2:Should be soon. So we rewatch Game of Thrones every January. Yes, it's our post-holiday blues show.
Speaker 1:That's what we watch, I keep knocking the microphone.
Speaker 2:I'm sorry.
Speaker 1:And then today my boy went to.
Speaker 2:Ollie's. She's got so much shit blessed on her birthday and he got me a whole mixology poster.
Speaker 1:Boo-yah, we're going to go through this one. We're going to go through that one. 're going to go through that one, and then Lindsay's going to tell a story and I'm going to drink that one, and she's going to drink that one and that one.
Speaker 2:Yeah, we're going to try to make all of these. Our liquor collection is going to quadruple.
Speaker 1:Lean it forward that way. Look at all that.
Speaker 2:Look at all that.
Speaker 1:That's 1.21 gigawatts of drinks right there 42 drinks. Yeah, so we got to do, um, we got to do at least, uh, we'll do one a month, starting in season two, huh. So we're gonna take this whole thing, set it to the side and you can pick one a month on season two and we'll pick one, yeah we'll start.
Speaker 2:You pick one and I'll pick one. We'll get the ingredients and we'll make one of them. We'll start from the top. You pick one and I'll pick one. We'll get the ingredients and we'll make them both, no matter which one it lines up to.
Speaker 1:Are you sure? Yeah, we're sealing the deal. Boo-yah, you don't explode our boo-yah. Boo-yah, you gotta explode it every time you got to. One more time. I don't need to, but.
Speaker 2:I, they're glowing a little bit today. Our wedding rings are what is okay? You describe them. Oh, they're custom.
Speaker 1:They're custom made and they have uh parts that are older than earth in them. What's? The company though I don't fucking remember, dude. You wanted me to remember shit like this oh, we'll look up the company.
Speaker 2:We'll mention it in our next recap.
Speaker 1:Yeah, they go in the dark and they're like, they're parts of you know, things that are older than earth hold on, I'm to put it closer to the camera. It's hard to get mine off. Where's the camera? Look at these. They're fucking amazing.
Speaker 2:They're black but they have pieces of. It was like something designs or something I forgot, but dude makes these. It's David, somebody right?
Speaker 1:Yeah, he makes these things?
Speaker 2:by hand, not David Parker Ray.
Speaker 1:David Parker Ray designs and they just they do. I'm kidding, you killed me on that one. Is that where we're going to recap right here you got more, you got more things right. Oh, we got this.
Speaker 2:And we're going to do our okay. So you go ahead, you go first.
Speaker 1:No, Lindsay, it's your birthday weekend.
Speaker 2:I don't care, I want you to go first, so we ordered from Aaron. Goodwin, Big Steppin' and you are going to open that right now we don't have no idea. We have no idea what it looks like other than what we clicked on.
Speaker 1:While I'm opening this tell about Eric Goodwin Tell about it.
Speaker 2:Eric Aaron Goodwin, aaron, okay, so Aaron Goodwin is a host on Ghost Adventures, and his wife, so we have two parts. No, we just have one part. Grant Amato and then Victoria Goodwin. Listen to both of those episodes. Aaron Goodwin was a what's that?
Speaker 1:There's his card, okay.
Speaker 2:So Aaron Goodwin was a survivor, is that?
Speaker 1:backwards on there. Will it be backwards? I don't know. It was a survivor, is that backwards on?
Speaker 2:there. Will it be backwards? I don't know, it was so new. That was put on him by Grant Amato and his own wife. Grant Amato annihilated his family. Listen to that episode. And Victoria Goodwin was his wife, who reached out to Grant Amato after a documentary was put out about him called Control Alt Desire. She was attracted, ew.
Speaker 1:And that's like two fucking things that tied together and we just had to latch on.
Speaker 2:I had no idea. She didn't know until then, because I had already heard.
Speaker 1:They sent me like a whole grip of shit. Oh, we got stickers, I sent a message whenever I bought this about the whole podcast thing, so I'm pulling this out right now.
Speaker 2:Big step in this. So this is Aaron Goodwin's clothing line.
Speaker 1:They sent us a grip of stuff, holy crap. Okay, and there's a note here. Hang on. What is this?
Speaker 2:I love it. This is right up our alley. That's your invoice.
Speaker 1:They didn't send us no note. I thought they sent a note. I sent a whole. I support it recently.
Speaker 2:That's good, because we just got a new but very old outside fridge. That is very rusty and we need to cover it with lots of stickers.
Speaker 1:Well, that's cool. Yeah, they gave us some extra stuff.
Speaker 2:All right, so show your shirt, show your shirt, show what you ordered.
Speaker 1:It's not my birthday, but I'll. Okay, Look at this bitch. Right, I'm gonna go. Oh, it's a key, I know, I love it. So Streets of Salem maybe.
Speaker 2:So now you have to show your tattoo. That is of a key. I'm not done, baby. Oh, there's a whole back, Okay.
Speaker 1:What do I wear all the time? Skulls I do Sometimes. Probably I got a key. Where's it at Right there? Look at there. I ain't going to show it all because my arms are not that big, but they're big enough where you can't get it up there.
Speaker 2:We're in our 40s. That's the key to my mom's heart.
Speaker 1:But you know, I love keys and I love skulls and it's signed is it signed? Where did he sign it? Right here he signed it. Oh okay, it's just printed well, it's a little initial.
Speaker 2:Yeah, aaron.
Speaker 1:Goodwin isn't that cool that is cool. Big Steppin. Look at that booyah bigsteppincom right. Yeah, well, all the cards are here. What is it?
Speaker 2:Yep BigSteppincom Erwin Goodwin's collection. Thank you, erwin.
Speaker 1:Goodwin, all your struggles, all your shit, and we love it. All the ghost adventure stuff, we just fucking love it, man.
Speaker 2:Now this is a hoodie that I ordered from Jennifer Turpin. Go back and listen to our episode on the Turpin family horrors. And she is also a survivor and we want to support all of the survivors.
Speaker 1:All of the survivors.
Speaker 2:So she has a website called Dawn's Designs and I went through it and I looked and I wanted this shirt, or it's a hoodie. It's a hoodie. This is like birthday part four for Lindsayindsey well, I bought this with my own money, yeah, but this is still, oh, witchy vibes purple, so witchy vibes I can't hear you.
Speaker 1:I can't hear you.
Speaker 2:Witchy vibes and then hold on.
Speaker 1:Here's the back the big reveal Dun, dun, dun, dun, dun, boo-yah, dude, dude, and it's purple I'm so excited.
Speaker 2:Oh, it looks so comfy Her favorite color. That's cool.
Speaker 1:I didn't mean to touch your titty on live.
Speaker 2:Oh my God, Sorry, wife Titty on live. I said titty, you said the T word.
Speaker 1:Well, as soon as it hit my fingers.
Speaker 2:kids out of the room.
Speaker 1:Keep them out of our chats. They don't belong here. I'm going to take a sip out of that. That's cool.
Speaker 2:I'm going to wear this when we go to New England. That was the whole reason why I wanted to buy it, because it is cooler weather than where we're from and we want to make sure we have all the hoodies and we're warm. Because I looked up the weather for typical New England in late September, early October and it says it is cooler during the day.
Speaker 1:And then it warms up to like 80. And then it warms up Well no, it warms up 70.
Speaker 2:Oh yes, yes, 70 is cold.
Speaker 1:My.
Speaker 2:Scandinavian can love my avian, but I am. This is perfect. So this is a size large, because I wanted it a little big. I go from medium to large, depending on the company. But yeah, this looks nice and cozy, don't it?
Speaker 1:Oh, the fabric's nice, it's soft, hold on.
Speaker 2:Let's go to the inside my fabric's nice too.
Speaker 1:This is a good shirt. It's soft on the inside, so support every tag that we put out there.
Speaker 2:BigSteppencom Don's Designs LLCcom.
Speaker 1:You know who wanted to be a part of a big thing of us, that Mandalay Worldwide that we shared some of the music of Okay, from the A couple podcasts ago, david Parker Ray, part One right, I think it was yeah.
Speaker 2:No, no, no no.
Speaker 1:No, before that one.
Speaker 2:Belle Gunness, belle Gunness, belle Gunness.
Speaker 1:Belle Gunness and the Jiggy Juice, which was like her project Dude. That's so cool.
Speaker 2:You're going to have to talk to the camera. I have to go potty.
Speaker 1:She's got to go pee I can't hold it Are you going to put it on me right now?
Speaker 1:I am. This isn't cool. I got to check that shit out, right, but our last episode that we just put out, I literally had to leave. Lindsey broke me all the way down. I couldn't handle it. I I mean the whole buildup of everything. And then she keeps dropping everything that David Parker Ray has done in his fucking torture shed of shame. You got to check that dude out. He has this huge mustache looks like leather Horrific. He has like this huge mustache looks like leather horrific. And then Lindsay's like she's showing me her little phone over here. She's like look at this, jesse, in the middle of the podcast. I'm like, dude, I don't want to see this. I'm like I'll turn it over here to my plant.
Speaker 1:It wasn't enough, I had to leave. I had to leave. It was rough. It was really one of the hardest things that I had to endure. And then to get this content out and sharing everything that we've done in the last year has just been a lot. It all came together all in one big, huge explosion and I broke down. I really did, and I I I'm not shameful for that part, but all of the victims and the parents and families that are just missing these people. You know these horrific things that happen and she's back. It was. It was tough, it just these horrific things that happen and she's back it was. It was tough, it just it exploded inside of me and I, I just I completely broke down. I had to walk away from it.
Speaker 2:Lindsay had to pee in the middle of everything.
Speaker 1:It was so horrific and I don't know. Our little, our little live stream is reconnecting. I don't know if it's going to catch all of this, but we're going to keep talking and then we'll figure it out. But it was a really hard time for me. You know that episode two of David Parker Ray with his mustache Fuck him.
Speaker 2:Leatherface.
Speaker 1:Leatherface. Oh, we had technical difficulties and this is a whole new day, but we're gonna tie them together, we're gonna do it um.
Speaker 2:So what are we drinking this morning?
Speaker 1:we're drinking bloody marys yes they're so good we just made them, so you can see how we do all that on tiktok.
Speaker 2:Yeah, and follow me on TikTok.
Speaker 1:So yes.
Speaker 2:DrinkAboutSomething underscore. Lindsay Jesse made the Bloody Marys. While I told a little history about where the name came from, which is Mary Tudor, I didn't know. He was a little shocked. I thought he knew. Well, I mixed it up.
Speaker 1:I don't know, I don't know shit. So it's cool, it's good, it's good, it's good, it's okay.
Speaker 2:So David Parker Ray.
Speaker 1:DPR.
Speaker 2:What'd you call him?
Speaker 1:Old Saddle.
Speaker 2:With the Buick mustache.
Speaker 1:DPR.
Speaker 2:So fucking gross, and later on I might even drink a bunch of PBRs. I'm kidding, he probably did drink, he probably drank PBRs because he was DPR. Yeah, you think I don't know. Oh, anyways, he was disgusting and his victim count unfortunately will never be known because that was my breaking point. By the way, I know I had to step away, that Jesse broke down.
Speaker 1:I had to get all the fuck away from fuck because she kept fucking with me.
Speaker 2:We want you to listen to the two-part episode, but just a little rundown. This guy from New Mexico did some really messed up things. His father introduced him into sadomasochistic porn at a very young age and it literally built this foundation for a psycho horrible. He did horrible things to women that he he targeted sex workers and hitchhikers, and women that he literally quote, said that he didn't think anybody gave a shit about and that wouldn't be followed up on. And unfortunately he was right for a lot of the time, because there's only a few known victims, and those were two were survivors.
Speaker 1:And then one was they found in? I don't want to go into too many details.
Speaker 2:Well they, didn't find her. It was like a cheese cloth thing, one of his accomplices.
Speaker 1:Well, yeah, but they didn't tie that to anybody, well, but, it was found in the river or in that lake, that reservoir, so it was just like, you know, it had to have been right, and that's what really broke me is just like the families and everybody that didn't get to have that closure, you know.
Speaker 2:Yeah, that really did that, just really like when we were recording it like this. I don't want to say light bulb, but it was like this thing clicked in Jesse's head and he just broke down the weight. It was just all at one time. There's so many people out there that are.
Speaker 1:It was a semi-truck of fuck yeah. Whole trailer full and I don't want to say it was the toy box full of shit, you got to watch it, I mean well listen to it, watch it, hear it in everything, all of it. But and yeah, well, there is a watch it too, Cause you can do.
Speaker 2:Okay, what? What gets me about him? And there's a lot of other people too that do really shitty stuff, really horrific things. He had accomplices like he got people to go along with this and how I don't know and one was his daughter yeah so, and that's a lot of that, because what they were doing together was a lot of.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I don't want to get into details, I know and if you uh, so after you listen to our two-parter, also get the book or listen to the audio book Cries in the Desert. It is really really good. I mean it's horrible, it's horrifying. I'm hiding, but you will know way more about that case if it does interest you Like.
Speaker 1:Everything Everything you need to know is in that book and yeah, so check that out and then, uh, if you want to go deep, diving, deep dive into all that, because there's so much more to deep dive into than even what we covered or what lindsey covered over yes over there yeah, because I can only do so much I mean over there this is, this is our hobby, not my full-time job.
Speaker 2:yet One day, when it is because I'm manifesting that, there will be lots of detail.
Speaker 1:I'm going to be in this hot seat forever. She's going to just keep me here.
Speaker 2:I don't really want to do it. Take another sip. This is so good. I don't.
Speaker 1:But I do, because the knowledge and being able to share all that is a good thing.
Speaker 2:Yes, this whole experience has really opened jesse's eyes to um, I mean, even though there are horrible women out there, but it's still, the ratio is mostly men, and it opened his eyes to the fear that women have to go through on a day-to-day basis.
Speaker 1:And it does happen to males, and you know men in general too, but most women, yeah, sucks and if you're ever vacationing in uh elephant butte lake don't go swimming in the water, I wouldn't, yeah boat or jet ski I wouldn't even play. I mean, like, what's gonna happen? Who knows, who knows? Think twice. So, lindsay, we did a recap on all of your stuff. That's earlier in this same episode. Did you have a great birthday?
Speaker 2:I had an amazing birthday it was so awesome and I showed you, guys, some of the ingredients for Bloody Marys that Jesse bought me, and that's what we used to make these today.
Speaker 1:Right here, right there, and they are delicious. Right there to make these today, and they are delicious right there. That devil dave's is the tisnitz. Yes, the oh that, really that?
Speaker 2:that that much it's good. Is it too good, like I? I took a sip to taste and I just kept going. This is kept going, just kept gulping. Yeah, I will be done with mine before you are yours.
Speaker 1:I always am, though well, we got a lot to do. We're going to keep on moving. She's got another type serial killer type thing going on.
Speaker 2:Edward, yeah, I kind of gaslit our listeners. I said that our 50th. This is our 50th episode we're recording today. By the way, happy 50th.
Speaker 1:Well, for sure, and happy one year. Oh yeah, Happy one year Yay for sure.
Speaker 2:And happy one year. Oh yeah, happy one year.
Speaker 1:Yay, I'm bumping everything that's cool Cause one of these days, one of these days, I'm going to get to do all that. I'll just get so obliteratedly drunk on here and just fall over. Ah bam, straighten that up, cause Lindsay has literally knocked around Like you heard it. If you, if you're following and listening along, I mean you know it's fun.
Speaker 2:We're still baby podcasters.
Speaker 1:No, it's fun. I'm going to leave all that.
Speaker 2:We're one years old. Now we're toddler. Is one year old a toddler or?
Speaker 1:are we still babies? But we're fixing to be coming up in our oh yeah. But you're getting so much better at it, and I'm not At all, no, I'm just hanging out over here, lindsay.
Speaker 2:Yeah, now I'm wearing earrings in my second hole today for the first time in years and with the headphones on. It's like stabbing me.
Speaker 1:My bestie got them for you.
Speaker 2:Yes, she did Shout out to Amanda I love you so much and I love these earrings. They're amazing. Let's see. Yeah, look at that. That is so freaking cool. Even my grandbaby looked at them. She said they're so pretty.
Speaker 1:Do you think I should trim?
Speaker 2:all this. I said you're so pretty.
Speaker 1:Now that I'm seeing myself on TV here, it looks like I don't have any teeth. I mean I should just go like this the whole time, like Kendra. What was the thing I kept seeing on TikTok? Smile with her bottom teeth. Have you seen that?
Speaker 2:Oh my God, I was going to do that challenge and smile at him. You can't see it on her.
Speaker 1:There's a whole beard hole and I always have this resting dick face. Look at me. Oh, that's so sexy. We should have done that on our first date Actually, one of our first dates. I did the whole stare at her and not look away and keep eating.
Speaker 2:Oh my God, it was so funny.
Speaker 1:And then one time we were eating and I messed my mouth and everything he just-.
Speaker 2:Because I was like rambling. And the next thing I know he put his whole bare hand in my salad and just grabbed some. Some women might've been horrified, but I fucking almost pissed myself laughing.
Speaker 1:She's like it looked good. I just wanted to see where's my limits with this woman. It looked good.
Speaker 2:I just wanted to see where's my limits with this woman, 13 years?
Speaker 1:ago.
Speaker 2:You haven't found it yet, I don't know. Sometimes I have to be like, all right, that's a fucking nuff, like the dicks and balls.
Speaker 1:The dicks, balls and weenies jokes. Yeah, I'm like enough.
Speaker 2:Well, I live with all men. I can't help it.
Speaker 1:Yes, we're going to get down on this and we're going to get down on cheers. Everybody, Y'all stay tuned.
Speaker 2:And if you want to see how we make those, follow me on TikTok.
Speaker 1:And we're fixing to head up north and we're going to have a great time and by the time this Friday comes out, we're already going to be our asses in.
Speaker 2:New England area so definitely follow me on TikTok to see everywhere that we're going to go. Drink about something underscore no, drink about something pod underscore Lindsay.
Speaker 1:And if you don't have all the other stuff, just go to YouTube and type in Gen Z J-E-N-D-S-E-Y. That's the Gen Z family.
Speaker 2:Or visit our website drinkaboutsomethingsite. You can listen to our episodes on there. Jesse updates pictures from the cases every week.
Speaker 1:I work. Look at all this it got on my hand.
Speaker 2:It's good, it's a chili lime rim job.
Speaker 1:Yes, a spicy rim job from Lindsay, it's great.
Speaker 2:But for now we're going to sign off so that we can get recording about our story on.
Speaker 1:Ed Gein.
Speaker 2:So yeah.
Speaker 1:I don't want to do it Because I know a little bit about it, but we're going to do it. We'll see you guys, though, keep on rocking in the free world. Y'all know shit. Well, I don't, you know. That was my outro.
Speaker 2:Can I do an outro?
Speaker 1:Yes, All right, here's the outro. No, I don't have an outro Lindsay. All right, here's the outro. No, I don't have an outro Lindsay.
Speaker 2:All right, well, I do.
Speaker 1:So we love you guys Really.
Speaker 2:Yes, oh, keep listening and bye, did it go?
